The Cons Of Being A Teen Mom

Wow There are so many things a teen mother has to look out for when she is going out with her baby! It just ticks me off!! I mean it! How many 20 year old mothers get that ugly or disgusted look when they see her with a new born baby?? How many I ask none that's how many But if they see a teen mom the looks are non stop like what you never seen a mother lady? Huh anyone else get that?? OH what a cute baby brother is what i get when I'm holding my 2 month old Ugh excuse me but he is my son Oh but you are so young oh how old are you...OK people what does age matter of how good of a mother you will be? it all depends on how mature you are i mean really a child makes your world a more meaningful place ...Ah there is just some ignorant people in this world don't you think so?? I Do I mean really yes maybe some of us could have did not a expect a child so soon but guess what it happened there is no turning back.. If you have a child as a teen you get criticized for being a young teen mom and if you get an abortion ( Not That I Ever Thought About It) You Are A Killer i mean come on people get a life I am against abortion but people do what they wish

Mistakes Happen...# 2came Along

Well after I had Jaret I Swore I would Take Care Of Jaret And not get prego until a few more years well.. my boyfriend decided to move to a new city well before we moved i went to my ob gyn and well they said i could not get any type of birth control because i don't even remember lol but the point is i got no birth control we moved to Cary,NC i loved it here...anyway A few months passed no birth control V-day came along we had an romantic day even more romantic night ha ha well a few weeks later i missed my period I'm like No God please Jaret Is only 3 months!! Well guess God decided to send me another miracle yes i was expecting again!! gosh you guys have no idea what the people talked about me and said i was irresponsible mom ugh you have no idea how mad that made me I'm like just because i got pregnant again does not mean I'm not going to be a good mom i wanted t scream there are other moms out there that are 25ish and are horrible moms trust me i know well i had a very good pregnancy some difficulties but no biggie i had Jayden on October 16,2009 I love Him!! He Was a big boy

My First Baby....Start - Birth

Hi everyone who reads this my name is Jessica Flores i will now tell you all a about my early mother days then i will go from there...OK so i got together with my boyfriend about 2yrs ago i was 16 at the time i had no intentions on becoming pregnant i enrolled into the nearby high school i went to the local health department to start on birth control i decided i was going to go on the pills even though i was never good at remembering things but it was the most simple and no need to see any needles so i started them everything seemed to be going fine until after a few months of taking them i had forgotten some no big deal because my boyfriend wasn't home everyday ( He worked out of town ) a few months later missed period OH MY GOSH was my reaction a few days later a took a home pregnancy test faint positive.. Wow The Next Thing I did was show it to my boyfriend we were both excited he did not have any children neither did I well I went to my first prenatal exam everything went great but i got some news that made my heart skip a beat i could be having twins the Ob was still not sure but scheduled me for an scan as soon as possible those days went by like years...the day of truth arrived Nope false alarm! Phew You Have no idea how freaked out I was...Well Things got pretty ugly I Had morning sickness 24/7 Really I could not hold anything down I got so sick i would pass out ugh i had to get checked in the hospital God it was awful but i got to the six month mark and it went away everything from there went awesome!! :)
8 months my boyfriend and I decided to get married we make the plans and everything well anxious I wait for the next day to come well I eventually fall asleep...4:45 AM Shooting pains on my belly Ugh BHC I try to ignore them 5:10 Aha they keep getting more intense....6:00 Am Getting everything ready to go to the hospital 6:15 At L&D the nurse comes in and checks how many centimeters I'm dilated turns up I'm 6 what already!!! she says to me calmly yep looks like we are having a baby today Oh MY GOSH OH MY GOSH Yeah I was SO scared well Doc on vacation OMG No I Yell I Want My Doc Here...Sorry no can do he is on vacation but there is another Doc on call well hopefully she can do it right The doc comes in and tells me I'm a little nervous i don't have to much experience I'm like please please don't do anything wrong she is like No its OK everything will be fine sweetie..yeah right 2:00 Pm contractions get unbearable i scream for the doctor to come in she come in checks me ohhh well your ready to push I'm already pushing!!! Ha Well i push but the Jaret's not positioned right uh oh yes i get an epitome no numbing medication...Woo that was fun NOT well his heart rate goes down I'm SO scared so is the Doc they Had To Use the Vacuum then all the pain goes away and i see that angelical face I Say Happy Birth Day Love You have no idea how many emotions i had mixed up it's the most unexplainable thing in this world all i can say you only feel it when your a mother Jaret was born on Friday November 21,2008 @ 2:30 pm He Is A Precious Healthy boy I Adore Him